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Figuring Out Gold Digging and Why We All Need to Be Gold Diggers

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In a world where the more you have, the more security you can provide for you and your family, why is being a gold digger not considered a positive attribute? In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss why we all need to be gold diggers and share 5 simple ways to begin gold digging. 

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Figuring Out How to Be Your Authentic Self Every Day

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What does it mean to be your true authentic self? What happens when you don’t live an authentic life? What are the benefits of being your authentic self? In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss the importance of being your authentic self and share 7 simple tips to start being your authentic self.  


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Figuring Out How to Develop a Better Relationship with Yourself

How to develop a better relationship with yourself

Do you ever feel like you failed at life?  Often, when you’re feeling this way, it is a reflection of how you feel inside. Understanding how to love yourself can help you cope with failure, rebuild your confidence, and live a better life. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss the importance of loving yourself and share 5 tips for developing a better relationship with yourself.  

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Figuring Out Black Joy and Why We Need to Cultivate It in Our Everyday Lives

With the pandemic, racism, and the Great Karen rebellion, what we need now more than ever is black joy.

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With the pandemic, racism, and the Great Karen rebellion, what we need now more than ever is black joy. Black joy is resistance to everything that has tried to kill black people and failed.  In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss black joy and why it is necessary, and share 10 simple ways to cultivate joy in your everyday life. 

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Figuring Out Class Reunions (And Why They Can Make Us Feel Insecure AF)

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My 15-year college reunion was supposed to be this month. But the pandemic happened, and it was canceled/postponed (?), and truthfully, I am a little relieved. Class reunions only happen every five years; yet, somehow, they are easily able to stir up insecurities (both old and new) in many of us. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss class reunions and why they make me feel insecure AF. 


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Figuring Out How to Cope with Racial Trauma and Stress

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Racial trauma, or race-based stress, is the psychological and physiological distress people of color suffer in reaction to experiences of racism, discrimination, and microaggressions. Such experiences include witnessing violence against another person of color (e.g., the video of George Floyd’s murder). Black people are more exposed to racism and discrimination than any other ethnic or racial group. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I discuss racial trauma and share 10 ways to cope with race-based stress.  


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Figuring Out What Not to Do After the Quarantine and Lockdown Ends

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Pandemic lockdown restrictions are easing across the US and around the world at varying degrees. And, there’s a lot of talk about things getting back to “normal.” And what I say to that is: Sorry, but don't expect life to return to normal. Even as lockdown restrictions loosen, there's still much we can do to slow the spread of the virus and prevent a second wave. In this episode of Figure Out Your Life podcast, I share 6 things not to do as outside reopens. 

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